Two days ago, my close cousin gave birth to a daughter, so I’m thinking about time, when my daughter was born. Year ago, on 11th of February, I had my Martha. The childbirth was the most important and the most beautiful event in my life. I divide my life: before and after the childbirth. Since I had Martha, I have been happier, more responsible and I have had more motivation for action. I can say: “I’m a new person”.
The all pregnancy time of my cousin, we were talking about the future childbirth. I had easy childbirth of Martha; it was only 35 minutes, when I arrived to hospital. So, I said to my cousin: “Don’t worry. In reality childbirth is a fascinating experience. You will feel like you touch an another world”. And thus she wasn’t afraid of the childbirth.
The day before yesterday, I’ve got the following massage: “I gave birth to daughter. Pain was such terrifying, that after 17 hours, the doctor decided to make caesarean section. It was the most horrible event in my life.”
I have felt remorse, I decided, I won’t talk with pregnant women about childbirth…
To be honest, I can't wait for my own child :) now, I'm not afraid of pregnant but who know how it'll be ... :)
ReplyDeletewhy did you remove your last post about your daughter? life is definitely too hard but unfortunately nobody said that it will be easy...
ReplyDelete